Cyndi Lauper Biography

Born on June 22, 1953, at Boulevard Hospital in Astoria, Queens, New York City, Cynthia Ann Stephanie "Cyndi" Lauper is the youngest daughter of Frederick A. Lauper, of Swiss-German descent, and Catrine Dominique Gallo, an Italian American. She has an older sister, Ellen, and a younger brother, Fred. The early part of her life was spent in Brooklyn but when she was four years old, she relocated to Ozone Park, Queens where she grew up in a railroad-style apartment. In 1958, her parents divorced. Gallo later remarried but it too ended in a divorce.

As a teenager, she, along with her sister, received rape threats from their stepfather who also used to spy on her when she took baths. This prompted her to leave home at 17 years of age. She has always been a social outcast and possessed an insatiable desire to rebel against what is viewed as conventional. This very mindset would later define her as an artist, as well as the legacy of her music.

Like any other adolescent with a penchant for defiance, she experimented with a variety of hair colors and eccentric clothing. On a friend’s suggestion, she began to spell her name “Cyndi” rather than “Cindy”. At 12, she started writing songs and playing the acoustic guitar she had received from her sister as a gift. However, her education suffered. She was expelled from her school, Richmond Hill High, but later she earned her GED.

After leaving her home, she eventually ended up in Vermont where she enrolled at Johnson State College to study art. When she wasn’t studying, she was working, be it as a waitress, an office assistant, or a singer in a Japanese restaurant.

She was sexually assaulted in the early years of her career by a member of a cover band she was part of. During this period, she also became pregnant by a former boyfriend. Despite wanting to keep the child, this man pressured her to have an abortion.

In the early 1970s, Cyndi Lauper performed with a number of bands. In 1974, while performing Kiki Dee’s ‘I Got the Music in Me’ at a venue in Queens, her voice started to fail when she hit the high notes for the first time. By 1977, her vocal cords were severely damaged, and the doctors told her she would never sing again. However, after working with voice coach Katie Agresta, she got back her voice.

Eventually, she became a founding member of the band ‘Blue Angel’ which she formed with saxophone player John Turi. Besides her and Turi, the other members of ‘Blue Angel’ were Arthur "Rockin' A" Neilson (guitar), Lee Brovitz (bass guitar), and Johnny Morelli (drums). They released their first and only album, the self-titled ‘Blue Angel’ in 1980. While it got rave reviews, it performed poorly on the charts and the group subsequently split.

Following the band’s breakup, Lauper went on to pursue a successful solo career. She has released 11 albums to date. They are: ‘She's So Unusual’ (1983), ‘True Colors’ (1986), ‘A Night to Remember’ (1989), ‘Hat Full of Stars’ (1993), ‘Sisters of Avalon’ (1996), ‘Merry Christmas ... Have a Nice Life’ (1998), ‘At Last’ (2003), ‘Shine’ (2004), ‘Bring Ya to the Brink’ (2008), ‘Memphis Blues’ (2010), and ‘Detour’ (2016).

Cyndi Lauper, more than anyone, personifies the defiance, the eccentricity, the nihilism, and even the naivety generally associated with punk music. This personality, which exists in perfect dichotomy with her childish voice, makes her an ideal representative of her generation, just like Madonna.

She has also appeared in multiple films and television shows throughout her career, be it as herself or portraying a character. She was part of several World Wrestling Federation's 'Rock 'n' Wrestling Connection' events and was present at WrestleMania I (1985). She played Marianne Lugasso in NBC’s sitcom ‘Mad About You’ (1992-99), co-starred with Christopher Walken in the crime-drama film ‘The Opportunists’ (2000), and competed in season 3 of ‘The Celebrity Apprentice’ (2009), coming sixth.

In 2012, she wrote the music and the lyrics for Harvey Fierstein’s Broadway musical ‘Kinky Boots.’ The album was released in May 2013.

In 2014, she voiced ‘Nurse Cyndi’ in the animated drama film ‘Henry & Me’ directed by Barrett Esposito. The film holds an 80% approval score on Rotten Tomatoes. She put out her twelfth studio album ‘Detour’ in May 2016. The album peaked at number 29 on the Billboard 200 and reached number 4 on the Billboard Top Country Albums.

She next appeared in television shows like ‘Magnum P.I.,’ ‘Young Sheldon,’ ‘Bubble Guppies,’ and ‘Project Runway.’ In 2023, she played the role of ‘Ruthie’ in the dark comedy horror television series ‘The Horror of Dolores Roach.’ She also gave the song ‘Oh Dolores’ for the show.

Cyndi Lauper’s album ‘She's So Unusual’ is listed among Rolling Stone’s 500 Greatest Albums of All Time. Vh1 included the album’s single ‘Time After Time’ in their list of the 100 Best Songs of the Past 25 Years while Lauper herself was ranked at #58 on the list of the 100 Greatest Women of Rock & Roll.

She collaborated with journalist and author Jancee Dunn on her autobiographical non-fiction, ‘Cyndi Lauper: A Memoir’. As controversial as it is honest, the book was published in September 2012 by Atria Books. It became a New York Times Best Seller.

At the 1984 Billboard Awards, Cyndi Lauper was conferred with the Best New Artist award and the Best Female Performance for the song ‘Time After Time’.

In 1985, she won the Grammy Award for Best New Artist. She won her second Grammy for Best Musical Theatre Album in 2014 for ‘Kinky Boots’.

For the track ‘We Are the World’, she was granted the People’s Choice Award for Favourite New Song in 1986.

In 1995, she received the Emmy Award for Outstanding Guest Actress In A Comedy Series for ‘Mad About You’.

Her work in ‘Kinky Boots’ also brought her Best Original Score accolade at the 2013 Tony Awards.

In the past, Cyndi Lauper had dated Dave Wolff, her previous manager, for six and a half years. She met actor David Thornton on the set of the film ‘Off and Running’ (1991) and fell in love with him. They married on November 24, 1991. Their son, Declyn Wallace Thornton, Was born on November 19, 1997.

Her iconic cover and re-arrangement of Robert Hazard’s ‘Girls Just Want to Have Fun’ has cemented her status as a feminist idol. According to journalist and music critic Sheila Moeschen, Lauper has come to be viewed as the embodiment of a different kind of aesthetics that celebrates the playfulness in self-expression, as opposed to the raw sensuality and edginess of her contemporaries such as Madonna and Joan Jett.

As a passionate supporter of LGBT rights, she is known to campaign for various charities and attend pride marches. She has cited her sister Ellen, who is a lesbian, as her reason to join the movement. One of her songs, ‘True Colors’, is widely recognized as an LGBT anthem, while another song, ‘Above the Clouds’ was written to honor Matthew Shepard, who was killed because of his sexual orientation.

Cyndi Lauper is an avid wrestling fan and even made an appearance at WrestleMania.